The Sexy Side

And yes thick chicks have a sexy side Muthaphukka!

I think lingerie is some of the sexiest shit on the planet! Even better if it’s attached to a round belly, stretch marks, and thick thighs. However, after happy hour with friends I’m realizing women are afraid of these wonderful liberating thin pieces of fabric, especially if you’re plus size. This makes me sad AF. As far back as I can remember I have had a thing for my bra and panties matching. Granted I’m a black lace kind of girl but you get where I’m going with this. Knowing that I was killing it under my raggedy outfit was always my secret super power. I also grew up with a Haitian grandmother who thought femininity was the end all to every situation (more on that in another post) I’m more concerned with, why is it that thicker women shy away from lingerie?? I understand before we didn’t have much to choose from (Does anyone remember Frederick’s of Hollywood? that store was soft porn at its finest) but now we are really being held down:

These woman looks amazing!!!! Are you telling me you wouldn’t rock this?? How about with a Kimono?? Let me take you on a journey of a few pieces I think are universally dope and we all can feel amazing in

Gabi Fresh is someone i absolutely adore so her capsule line for Playful Promises are some of my favorites and are absolutely thick chick friendly:

I also took a gander of Fashion Nova and they have a wide variety of pickings as well:

One of my favorite celebrities in all of the land gave the thickies some options as well, I have to say tho I am not a fan of the Savage Fenty (clutches pearls) I believe Rihanna is one of the sexiest women on the planet but this line is very…meh

But I would love to hear how you ladies feel about lingerie. Do you enjoy it? Only wear it for your mate? Wear it daily? Tell me everything in the comments.

6 Replies to “The Sexy Side”

  1. For me personally, I’ve always been a tomboy. I feel like I am just now finding my grown and sexy. I am a work in progress, so I am digging the safe space you’ve created.

  2. Great post! I love lingerie but my man has never really cared for it. Not that he doesn’t think it’s nice but has always found it pointless. Lol. He’s more of the “get naked baby, damn” type. (Ladies of a certain age might get that reference.) I still wear it sometimes for me but I miss old Fredericks of Hollywood (I too was a fan). They had that old, Hollywood glamour lingerie I loved.

  3. Hi there! Great content- can’t wait for more! I believe we are in the middle of women embracing their bodies again and putting on sexy shit to wear for themselves and not for someone who doesn’t know the difference between silk and polyester…IJS.

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